In this episode Mare and Tara have a Conscious Conversation by delving into the concept of shifting one’s listening perspective to foster better understanding and love in relationships. They explore concepts from Peter J. Hughes’ “At-One-ment: Reclaiming Our Humanity” and discuss how projecting love can create opportunities for different and more positive experiences. They reflect on their own tendencies to anticipate and assume others’ responses based on past interactions, particularly highlighting experiences in marriages and medical consultations where preconceived filters influence their listening.
The discussion also touches upon the challenges of overcoming deeply rooted biases and fears that shape our perceptions and reactions. Tara shares personal anecdotes about dealing with medical professionals and understanding her husband’s responses, while Mare talks about navigating relationships with siblings and dealing with grief. They emphasize the importance of professional help in unpacking psychological “backpacks” filled with accumulated emotional baggage, allowing for a clearer, more empathetic perspective.
The episode concludes with reflections on the difficulty of practicing open and loving listening, especially in contexts like politically charged conversations or reunions with diverse classmates. They stress the importance of recognizing and managing one’s filters to engage in more meaningful and loving interactions. Together they invite the audience to join them in this journey of self-discovery and relationship building through the tools provided by Hughes’ book and cards, reinforcing the idea that everyone has the potential to show up better in an often divided world.
1. What is a Living Intention?: Learn more here:
https://www.connectionproject360.com/
2. Learn more about Reclaiming Our Humanity with Author Peter J
Hughes: https://peterjhughes.com/books/
